Following reports and viral photos which showed
Nollywood Actress, Tonto Dikeh showing up at son’s
school Father’s day celebration dressed like a man ,
her estranged husband, Olakunle Churchill has reacted
to this with a cryptic message.
Dropping a message on the Instagram photo he shared
which reads, ‘Don’t play the victim to circumstances
you created’, Olakunle Churchill wrote;
“It’s cruel and it’s unfair.
You are lying to yourself because you seek comfort. Well
comfort is overrated. You are lying to yourself because
you are scared of the unknown. But you must stop. To
continue lying will eat away at your soul, causing you
untold amounts of future pain.
A lie is something that you make yourself believe in
order to make life a little easier. A lie is a paradigm
under which you operate to avoid pain. A lie will destroy
you, inside and out. A lie is something you want to
believe because to consider the opposite would hurt your
Sometimes the difference between a lie and the truth
can be subtle. Sometimes your brain will try to
“logically” trick you into believing a lie. I cannot give you
a definitive guide on how to differentiate between the
two; I am not you and I do not understand your specific
circumstances, motivations, and desires. I can,
however, give you some tips to guide you to make
decisions that will serve you well.
DM me for guidelines”